Acts of Service

1.  Explain how acts of service function as a love language.  Why do acts of service qualify as expressions of love?

2.  Dr. Chapman draws three truths from his illustration of Mark and Mary’s relationship. Discuss each truth and what we may learn from each.

3.  Should acts of service become acts of manipulation, they are no longer acts of love. To prevent such occurrences, what does learning the love language of acts of service require of us? What should be our response if our spouse’s primary love language asks something of us that seems inappropriate to our role?

4.  Dr. Chapman lists some creative ideas we can exercise to embrace our spouse’s love language of acts of service. Briefly discuss these. If your spouse’s love language is acts of service, which ones would you consider using?